Torn and now restored

If you have trouble understanding what gay and lesbian people have to go through, these videos are worth watching and will help you to understand.

One thing that frustrates me when I come out to straight people is how they always narrow down being gay to sex and lust.    I know that no straight people become gay affirming overnight, most straight people especially straight christians already have preconceived notion about gay people, such as gay people are promiscuous which is the most popular, gay people only pursue sexual pleasure not love, and no gay relationship lasts long. In reality, how many gay people that they know in their life? do they have friends who are gay and live in promiscuity? Many don't, but these preconceived ideas have been perpetuated sadly by the church.  It makes me very frustrated  when  straight people think of being gay, they think of lust and sex and any emotional components are ignored.  Christian, when you  make  the blanket statement that homosexuality is a sin, what you’re really doing without realizing it is reducing all LGBT people down to a sex act; as if that alone defines sexuality.